Goodbyes made you think.
They made you realize what you've had,
what you've lost,
and what you've taken for granted.
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Aside from having a decent job, the second thing that I thought was so hard to do, is to let go.
Letting go of something you hold on for a long time. Letting go of something you had valued so much. Letting go of something you that made your day and night complete. Letting go of something, you never thought of giving up.
But that is life, that is love. Sometimes, even the thing or person we thought we'll never loose can actually disappear in any unexpected place, and in any unexpected time. What's worst was when we knew all along that it has to go, yet we hold on to it. Even if it hurts us every single minute.
But why is letting go so hard to do? Is there any easy way to move on and just forget the person? If it's love, then why is it hurting me so much?
For sure, these are just some of the questions that are running to your mind. But the truth is, there will be no easy way to move on, and to let go. There is no such short-cut on forgetting someone. However, thinking of the facts on why you should stop holding on to something will surely help. If it hurts so much, then why prolong the agony? If the reason why you're hurting is because somebody's taking you for granted, then why let this happen for a long time? If someone's cheating on you, then why still hold on to something you're calling a "commitment"?
And one thing, you'll only know it's love when it hurts you. So accept the fact and just do what you have to. Never ever fail to think about yourself. This is the best way to let go and to move on.
It's not bad to cry. To listen to the saddest, break up songs. And to reminisce what you had. But remember, somethings are worth giving up especially if it wasn't meant for you. There is ALWAYS more to life. God will always have his plans for you. So remember, life is very unexpected so better be ready with everything.
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